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Romance Beyond the Romantic Age

Friday, November 28th, 2008
Amitabh Vikram Dwivedi asked:


Ah! Freedom is a noble thing Freedom makes a man to have liking.

This paper searches for unity. The Vygotskian principle maintained that the function in cognitive development appears twice, first on the social plane and then on the psychological plane. The move from social plane to the psychological plane is mediated through certain signs . The Vygotskian principle states nothing new but the form of “Know Thyself.” Here, the verb ‘know’ for the subject we wish to know is not the individual consciousness but the universal subject as a man is to be studied not in his individual life but in his political and social life.

Similarly any mode of expression-whether fact or fiction linguistics now seeks to achieve a condensation and centralization through working toward a common end- a universal character(as we find in Inuit communities), in which every aspects of human life- the variety of mythical images, the work of aesthetics, the cult dogma etc. agree and harmonize. The freedom beyond the Romantic Age seeks a logical synthesis.

 A logical synthesis is a different thing because in spite of knowing the fact that scientific inventions oppose and suppress mythical behavior. Religion in its nature is under the necessity of defending the purity of its own ideal against the extravagant fancies of mythical signs and aesthetics. The paper investigates a unity of action, and unity of creative process instead of effects and products. In this progress, the freedom of man can be understood as a functional idea where the domain is SIGN.

This includes any creative process or work that is free from time and space. What we do in this process is to observe an object from the collective knowledge, and then try to add individual aspects of assimilation in order to formulate a unity . While doing humanly related work whenever the moments of pure, and positive happiness come into our mind we leave ourselves from all doubts, fears, inhibitions, weaknesses; and to quote Maslow ‘Self-consciousness was lost’. The unity makes all distance disappeared, and we come out with expression like “the world is so beautiful”, “I love to be here”, “I want to hear the silence”, etc.

As to quote one of my poems named ‘Interior Monologues’ in this context:

 In many ways- I see you near me

 Harvesting your smile inside my mind

My interior monologues, and The unending thoughts of yours

Knock at my cerebral door

In a moment open and in a second closed The gates of my eyes

That placed you in between somewhere

 Where… … …

There is nothing to forget but

 The ways of remembering you

This poem is an example of my beyondness-my romance in post-modernity , or my extension of romanticism. I call this poem ‘my romance’ because after that things happened to occur in a way that makes them seem more important than they really were; and not to forget pointing out that this romance was totally different from Hemingway’s type romance with his nurse that inspired him to write “A Farewell to Arms.” Succinctly speaking here we discover two denotations for the term ‘romance’. The first one develops a way of thinking, and the second one is an affair.

As I have mentioned earlier that logical synthesis does not seek unity of effects but a unity of actions. Thus Hemingway’s “A farewell to Arms” and my “Interior Monologues” romanticizing an acted unity. We came out with our creative work but the unity of effect was completely different. Any creative process seeks freedom from time and space that’s why there remains no unity in products but in the processes.

 Now to define “romance” of action the definition can be understood as a functional one, not as a substantial one. We cannot define the romance of action by any inherent principle which constitutes its metaphysical essence-nor can we define the romance of action by any inborn faculty that may be ascertained by empirical observation. In this way the denotative meaning of the word “romance” changes, and takes flight to different zones of freedom. The modifier “romance” before the preposition “beyond” changes the meaning of this preposition. The denotative meaning states that whatever comes after a particular time, and date; but here our modifier “romance” gives us freedom to move freely from time and space, and in this context only the functional elements remain, and the substantial elements evaporates. Then “the romance beyond the romantic age” can never be the Victorian age because substantial elements lack unity.

The clear version now comes into existence that any work which represents creativity and liberated imagination is romantic with small “r”. Now the Chomskian question comes into existence “How do we manage to think (romantically) freely? Linguistically it covers the field mind and cognition. Historically speaking literature finds creativity in history. Whenever we talk about the Romantic Period we say it is a period of beginning with French revolution, and simultaneously we talk about creativity, imagination, and perception that is far away from the Neo-Classical Period.

Now considering historical period in our mind we start talking about the substantial elements, but one thing is general whether we are dealing with creativity, or we are dealing with imagination we are in a unity of actions. To put forward the two Vygotskian concepts we would be able to give an appropriate solution to our riddle “How do we think?” The concepts are ‘zone of proximal development ‘and ‘inner speech’. Any person when comes out with any innovative work or imagination the action mediates between the actual developmental level as determined by independent problem solving activity, and the level of potential development as determined by problem solving under guidance. Inner speech tries to find relation of the invisible act of thought to language as a phenomenon of culture. Inner Speech, a kind of silent talking to oneself, is a central issue in the problem of the relation between thought and language. Inner Speech cannot exist without social interaction.

Similarly, no imagination is entirely new and novel, and it is an imitation of the collective actions. The imagination is only a more refined and complicated play of the same associate mechanism and automatism which we find in imitation. It is a play of words e.g. Crashaw’s description, in “Saint Mary Magdalene” as …two faithful fountains Two walking baths, two weeping motions, Portable and compendious ocean

Finally we come out with one finding that imitation is also a part of imagination. Our action of imitation is not an instinct (not a substantial element but it is a functional one). It is a function of language, and now to answer this question how far romantic writers were different from the other periods is not simple. People all around the world, since their time of origin, have been experiencing the great moments of emotions. All these personal or collective moments have been inspiring them from time to time.

 As a matter of fact they truly romanticized their sphere. But the point to notice is how come the hidden creativity bursts in a certain age? I elucidate my previous point that literature finds its creativity in History. The French Revolution with its cry of ‘liberty, fraternity, and equality’ began in 1789. The revolution inspired poets, thinkers, artists, and politicians. But it is not the whole truth. We cannot go for DNA genes as a creative marker. The supposedly scientific basic of such assumption is Sapir-Whorf hypothesis on linguistic determinism, stating that people’s thoughts are determined by the categories made available by their language and its weaker version that is known as linguistic relativity (stating that the differences among languages cause differences in the thoughts of their speakers).

Curiously enough an error is often committed by historians and anthologists, and its criticism is contained in John Dewey’s Human Nature and Conduct. “It is unscientific”, writes Dewey, to try to restrict original (functional) activities to a definite number of sharply demarcated classes of instincts…But when we assume that our lists and bunches represent fixed separation and collections. We obstruct rather than aid our transactions with things. A person’s imagination may go beyond normal happiness while reading Pope’s “Happy the man, whose wish and care A few paternal acres bound.” in his poem Solitude rather than reading Wordswothian “Behold her single in the field Yon solitary Highland Lass!” in The Solitary Reaper. The critical point at this juncture is that we write in language but we don’t think in language though when we are in “Inner Speech” we do use language. But sometimes it is not easy to find any word that properly conveys a thought.

The title “Romance beyond the Romantic Age” is thus pointed out that everything is transitional, and it is hard to answer when an imitative work of art starts showing the sign of real romance, and vice-versa. For us as an individual it is intellectual self-preservation demands that we should classify the infinity of events with reference to functional elements. References

1. Aristotle. 1983[1935]. “On Interpretation.” In Aristotle in Twenty Three Volume, Vol. l. Trans. H.P. Cooke and H. Tredennick. London: Heinemann.

2. Edelman, Murry J.(1988). The Politics of Misunderstanding. Chicago:University of Chicago.

 3. Hjelmslav, L. (1954). “La Stratification du language”.Word 10, Nos. 1-2: 163-80

. 4. Langacker, R.(1987). “Foundations of Cognitive Grammar.” Vol.l. Theoretical prerequisites. Stanford, CA:Stanford University Press

 5. Moll, L.(Ed.) (1990). “Vygotsky and Education: Instructional implications and applications of sociohistorical psychology.” Cambridge, MA:Cambridge University Press.

 6. Smolensky, P. (1986 a.) “Neural and conceptual interpretations of PDP models.” In Mcclelland, James L., Rumelhart, David E., et al, 372-43

. 7. Vygotsky, L.(1962). ”Thought and Language.” Cambridge,MA: MIT Press.

iThe premise of Vygotskian psychology is often referred to as cultural mediation. Children learn specific knowledge through social interaction, also known as internalization; this can be understood in one respect as ‘knowing how’, or ‘knowing thyself’.

iiHjelmslev emphasizes on focusing linguist’s work to research human culture and try to accumulate collective preserved knowledge through language-signs. Neurologist Walter Freeman borrowed St. Aquinas’s thought that human existence goals union with the universal (Aquinas’s term was God). Freeman says that the primary function of human brain is to filter meaning from information. The intentionality remains dominant.

iii Husserl’s precisely says that what we observe is not the object as it in itself, but how and in as much it is given in the intentional acts. Knowledge of essences would only be possible by “bracketing” all assumptions about the existence of an external world.

iv Gidden’s work Capitalism and Modern Social Theory (1971) explicitly explains that the primary task of social analysis is the following: the hermeneutic explication and mediation of divergent forms of life within descriptive meta-language of social science, and explication of the production and reproduction of society as the accomplished outcome of human agency.

vAccording to Chomsky we recognize a new item as a sentence not because it matches a familiar item in any simple way, but because it matches the grammar that each individual has somehow and in some form internalized. The hypothesis postulates that a particular language’s nature influences the habitual thought of its speakers.



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Dating Russian Woman – A Beginners Guide

Thursday, November 27th, 2008
Peter Finch asked:


If you are man, it is very possible that you must have been attracted to some or the other Russian woman at some point in your life. These women are slender and charming, and carry themselves with a grace. And they always have a smile on their lips. Men love the way in which these women pout when silent and bite their own lips when in thought, before proceeding to burst into an effervescent laughter. For men, it could be a heavenly experience to get to date a Russian woman.

Today’s Russian women have education to add to their sexiness. They are also conscious of their health and their body, which does make them good companions for life. Apart from their positive zest for life, they are good-looking. That is why men should not pass the opportunity to getting to date a Russian woman. A dinner invitation should be appropriate. However, getting a Russian woman to date could be a problem in the first place.

In any kind of romantic proposal, the moment is quite important. Since Russian women are mostly demure and coy, men might think they are easily attainable. But these women can act like a femme fatale when the time comes! So, if you are thinking of dating a Russian woman, you will need to be prepared for some unexpected behavior too.

The best place for meeting and dating Russian women is when they are vacationing in your country. This is also suitable for their own mindset as Russian women are more daring and open to experiment when they are abroad. Sometimes, Russian women might visit abroad alone or with a female companion just to find out if their true love interest lies abroad. You might find dating a Russian woman easier when they are already out like this to find true love. There will be ready for some flirting too, till they find the right man. However, you will need to work at being their right man.

Or else, you could take a vacation in Russia. Plan a business trip there, or even a simple leisure vacation, just for the chance of dating a Russian woman. It is quite possible that you find your true life’s love having a lonely dinner in a cozy restaurant in Russia. However, you must be a little careful, because you are playing in the woman’s own ground.

Russian women could be a bit conservation in their own homeground too. Like most women aroungd the world, Russian women are also fascinated by foreign men, but that does not mean they will plunge into romance with every foreign man they meet. You will score with them only if you are well-mannered and discreet with them.

One more place where you can try finding and dating a Russian woman is through dating club websites. These dating clubs have a large number of women on their lists, most of whom are looking out for foreign men to get hooked with. Some of these women may want a light affair only to know and understand foreign culture and language, but some could also be looking out for real dates. A few of these women might also want marriage. You can go ahead with such online dating if you want, but you must realize that there could be a few surprises when you actually meet the woman in person.

Dating a Russian woman online could be easy, but the actual visit could be a risky proposition. It happens often that the person does not look as good in reality as in an online photo, or even on the webcam. Even the mannerisms could be markedly different. So, online dating needs you to keep an open mind, and weighing all possibilities completely. Just be ready for all the excess baggage that comes with online dating.



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MAIL ORDER BRIDE.

Wednesday, November 26th, 2008
ATOMICBIGFOOT2 asked:


LESTER FLATT and EARL SCRUGGS on the BEVERLY HILLBILLIES singin,MAIL ORDER BRIDE.

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Ukraine Dating – What Are The Topics For The First Date?

Friday, November 21st, 2008
Peter Finch asked:


Many foreigners have come to Ukraine for business but have fallen in love with someone and have stayed for longer. What are good topics for conversation for your first date and what will guarantee you second?

Young Ukraine ladies are open minded, well educated and their charm is hard to resist. They have interests in many areas: from social position, political opinion, knowledge in economy and of course, they are ladies and are interested in fashion and celebrities.

They are curious towards foreigners because they know that these people have lived abroad and have new and different points of view which might broaden their own universe and give them new ideas and knowledge.

It is not hard to start informal conversation with a girl from Ukraine; the challenge comes when you want to ask her for a date. These young ladies are careful regarding the relationships they have. There are many reasons for this and the most important one is public opinion. They have been taught that a woman has a high value but not speaking in monetary aspect, but regarding efforts for her attention. In their country, women who start a relationship from the very first “Hello” do not have a good public image. This is especially true for the small regions where everyone knows everybody and everything new is accepted with a suspicion.

Good topics for conversation during the first date are your interests. The more you ask and share, the better you will know each other. Ukraine girls are not shy but on the first date everyone feels a little nervous and uneasy. Your best strategy will be to share something about your parents and childhood. Family plays an important role in local people’s life and if you tell something about yours this will bring your cultures a little closer.

Most young women in Ukraine speak at least one foreign language fluently. Most of them have studied English in school or have taken extra courses. Even if they speak with an accent, what they actually need is more practice. They will enjoy chatting to everyone with whom they can put into practice their foreign language knowledge.

One of the topics which to certain extent is not good to discuss during your first date, is the political situation in Ukraine as well as the old communist regime. The country was part of the Soviet Union but since December 1991 it is a fully independent country. Most people enjoy being citizens of Ukraine and not to be put under the flag of Russia.

Another picky topic is the Chernobyl nuclear accident. It left devastation and ruined the life of many. It is said that radiation is still having an effect on these lands and Ukrainians rarely want to discuss this.

If you make your date laugh and feel confident with you, be sure that you will have chance to invite her for a second date and eventually your relationship will grow more serious.

Telling funny stories from your life is always a good strategy. Also share memories from childhood, because it is often considered that this is one of the most intimate periods in man’s life. This will reveal your past and your date from Ukraine will not remain there thinking that you only want to get advantage of her.



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Online Dating Scams, a Case Study

Monday, November 17th, 2008
A. Hathaway asked:


Relationships Scams and the new Advance Fees

A warning for those in the world of Online Dating

The number of websites offering Internet match-making, online dating or relationship services has increase exponentially. With 2 billion Internet users worldwide as of January 2007, it is no wonder that more and more people are exploring the idea of meeting someone special via the Internet. There are plenty of success stories. This article, however, is a brief look at the darker side of online dating, and the potential pitfalls and risks.

Wymoo International, a global background check and investigative firm, has offered the following true case which occurred in 2006. Names and details have been changed or omitted to protect the privacy and confidentiality of the client. Some of the criminals in this case were eventually apprehended, although the client never fully recovered his financial or emotional loss. The aim here is to prevent future victims.

In February 2006, Paul McCrae, a successful U.S. business person, decided to explore the world of online dating. He signed up on a popular U.S. dating site and was soon contacted by Stephanie Blair of the United Kingdom. Stephanie appeared to be an honest, educated and hard-working girl. She was working in St. Petersburg, Russia as a financial analyst for a bristish investment bank. She made no requests for money, she sent daily emails and routinely phoned Paul in the U.S. She sent gifts for his birthday, and never expressed interest in moving to the States.

Months passed and the relationship progressed with phone calls, emails, letters, gifts, chatting via a webcam, etc. Paul, eventhough he had never met Stephanie in person, felt he could truly trust this person. Her pictures and voice were beautiful. She had a good job in St. Petersburg, came from a good family, and she had studied at a London university. She appeared to be the real thing. Paul finally agreed to visit her in Russia. He was in love.

In October, two weeks prior to Paul’s scheduled flight to Russia, Paul received a phone call. It was Stephanie. She was crying. She had horrible news. She had been in a car accident and had a broken leg, broken ribs, and required a surgery on her lower back. She could not walk and was flown to a different hospital in St. Petersburg where the surgery was to be performed. The hospital required payment in advance, and Stephanie’s credit cards were not accepted. She was desperate and needed cash.

Stephanie went through a total of 3 surgeries that same week. Paul spoke with staff at the hospital who updated him on her condition and the costs. She was expected to fully recover but it would take time. The total medical care cost was $38,000 USD, all of which was paid for by Paul, who wired the money to the hospital representative via Western Union. After the final payment, Paul never heard from her again. The fraud was complete.

How did this happen? Paul had known this person for 9 months. He had trusted her, and she had never asked for money until her accident. They had plans together for their future. Paul was skeptical, approached the relationship with caution, but believed in her and loved her completely. His total loss was close to $40,000 USD, and the emotional damage substantial.

Stephanie was a professional criminal. She new how to play the game. She knew she had to invest time and money in the relationship for the big pay off. In fact, she worked for a business operating in international fraud. Male managers directed and paid the women employees a handsome salary, while instructing and teaching the female employees how to play the role.

Paul contacted Wymoo International after the relationship had ended. The investigation uncovered the criminals behind the scam and authorities in St. Petersburg and Moscow were alerted to the criminal’s identity. The group was broken up and at least one person ended up in police custody. Warnings on blacklists and the Internet were made about the others. Paul recovered part of his financial losses but will never forget the experience.

The moral of the story is, if involved with anyone in a foreign country via a relationship on the Internet, get a background check. Be safe and sleep well at night knowing your intuition is right. Don’t be a victim of the new advance fee fraud.

Be safe and happy hunting,

A. Hathaway



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